Intriguing title, no? Could conjure up allllll sorts of images! Well, in this case I am wondering how willing you are to explore beyond your own particular fetish interests to meet the needs of someone else.
We all like to have our needs and desires met – play with a certain implements, a particular style of role play, perhaps more real discipline and not fantasy play. Maybe you’ve considered encouraging a vanilla friend or partner to engage in spanking in the hopes that they’ll try it and love it. But how accomodating are you to requests from others?
Would you engage in a parent/child spanking scenario if that wasn’t your thing? Would you be willing to switch roles, go from a top to a bottom or bottom to a top, if your partner wanted to explore the other side of things? Would you be up for trying out other fetish interests, incorporated into spanking or not, like bondage, wax play, cross-dressing, tickling, foot worship or any of the other zillion kinks out there if your friend or partner asked you to?
I’d like to think I’d be fair about things and consider suggestions with an open mind. I’d at least not judge someone for whatever it was that pushed their hot buttons. And while I might be willing to push beyond my comfort level for someone I had a relationship with, I can’t say I’d be up for anything and everything. Things that I fear might cause true harm and totally scare me (like choking or knife play) are beyond my level of flexibility. It’s probably not fun to play with someone having a panic attack anyway. I’ve played roles that I’m not comfortable with but would have to decline anything that I have a strong negative visceral reaction to as I’d probably end up having waves of regret washing over me repeatedly for a long time.
What are your limits with regard to flexibility? Are you up for exploring new things with a partner if they asked? Would you ever do “an exchange of fetishes” and engage in fetish play that if not of interest to you in effort to get the other person to engage in spanking play?
