While a full, bare bottom OTK spanking is not generally acceptable in public, a quick playful swat would barely raise the eyebrow of a vanilla audience. Such an act can be passed off as a joke or a little sign of affection and friskiness. And given that it’s only one swat, perhaps that’s all it is or perhaps it’s a warning of a longer spanking to be given in private later if fresh behavior continues; the secret meaning would only be known to the spanker and spankee. Spot a frat paddle shaped cutting board? You might be able to get away with delivering a mock swat if coupled with an innocent remark or joke.
But how far are you willing to push it? How daring are you to blur the line between the vanilla world and the spanking world?
I’ve gotten the occasional playful swat from my husband even in front of him family. It’s absolutely accepted as silliness between two playful people in love. Heck, I’ve even been known to give a passing swat to my sister-in-law when she’s least expecting it and she has a habit of returning the favor. Completely innocent. I’ve gotten more than a couple playful swats in public from Richard Windsor on a vanilla outing in NYC. It drew attention but it’s NYC where a girl getting five or six rapid fire spanks over a clothed bottom is probably the least unusual thing any observer saw that day.
Friends of mine have engaged in much more obvious public spanking play. Complete, but clothed, OTK delivered on a busy tourist street or in a restaurant. Corner time meted out in a department store, street corner, or the corner of a booth in a busy eatery. I blushed and I wasn’t even the one on the receiving end! There’s a thrill in being a little naughty in public and pushing the envelope, but the thought of being put in an embarrassing situation that draws a crowd’s attention is enough to get me to behave like an angel – well, an angel with a bent halo, anyway.
How daring are you? Is even a passing swat too much? Or are you only too happy to draw public attention with some edgy play?