Although we share a common love of spanking, we members of the spanking community have widely varying preferences when it comes to what makes a scene just right. From the basics of desiring M/F versus F/F versus M/M to the finer details such as style of panties or the uttering of a specific phrase. One aspect I have been considering for a while is the preference for a more modest scene versus an overtly sexual one and what elements make a scene one or the other.
A consensual spanking scene between two grown people is in itself adult in nature. But what gives a scene more of an innocent air? An innocent scene can still be totally hot and sexy to watch, but it isn’t overtly sexual. For wardrobe I tend to think of more regular street clothing and longer hemlines and less lingerie. If the scene were a school girl punishment, the girl would likely be dressed in a regulation uniform and not tiny scraps of plaid clothing from the adult costume shop and platform heels. The punishment and interaction between the spanker and bottom would be more line with a discipline spanking and less likely to incorporate adult toys, fondling, or result in sexual gratification.
To the other extreme would be a scene that is at least equally comprised of sexual acts and style of dress as of spanking. That school girl would wear nothing close to a true uniform and the spanker might be just as scantily dressed. The discipline may lead to obvious arousal and feature romance or forced sexual acts that would hopefully never be conducted in an actual school setting. But it’s that taboo that heightens the fantasy all the more for some.
Even the exact same scenario can be deemed more or less sexual in nature depending on how it’s filmed and photographed. Of course I think no matter what, a spanking scene needs to focus on the delicious curves of the bottom. However, spreading of the cheeks to showcase the genital and rectal area is perhaps more overtly sexual.
I did my best to describe what I view as either extreme but of course there are many shades of grey in between pulling elements of both innocence and sexuality. And while there are also variations of spanking scenes that can’t be neatly placed in either category at all, I’m curious to hear where your personal preferences fall on the scale. Do you enjoy scenes that tend to be more modest or ones that are more sexual in nature? Do you enjoy scenes all along the spectrum depending on your mood? Do your personal play preferences match your preferred style of scene or is one style fantasy only? Kinky curious minds want to know. >:)